Parent Playbook

To have a successful figure skating program, there must be understanding and cooperation among parents, skaters, and coaches. The growth your child experiences—both on and off the ice—depends on this shared commitment.

You’ve already done so much to raise your child. You’ve created the environment in which they’re learning, competing, and developing. Your skater is shaped by your values, the structure you’ve provided, and the example you’ve set. But in youth sports it’s natural for parents to lose a bit of perspective when it comes to their child’s development and performance.

These guidelines are designed to help keep your skater’s long-term growth in focus, support a positive figure skating experience, and ensure your child has the opportunity to reach their full potential as a skater.

We want your skater to build a strong, comfortable relationship with their coaches as early as possible. This connection between coach and skater is essential for growth, confidence, and progress on the ice. When parents step in with their own instructions about how their child should skate or train, it can create confusion for the skater and make it difficult for the coach to do their job effectively. 

Kids need to know exactly who to listen to during practices and competitions/performances.

If you ever have a question, concern, or issue, please reach out to your child’s coach first. Most things can be resolved quickly with a simple conversation.

The coach’s job is to teach, guide, motivate, and offer constructive feedback on your skater’s performance. Your role as a parent is just as important — providing the love, support, and encouragement that help your child stay engaged, work hard in practice, and build the confidence they need to perform well. When coaches coach and parents support, skaters thrive.